I’m going to preface this by saying that Athol Kay has a brilliant post on what he calls the “Three Day Rule.”
The Three Day Rule: Anytime a third wheel visits with a couple, after three days permission is granted by default to the opposite sex spouse to start having sex with the third wheel.
-Athol Kay
You hear all the time about the crucial steps in pick up. Even though they are rarely labeled as core steps, they are stressed so much in the PUAGs that I promise every single one of you can name them. In fact, lets go ahead and list the core components of a pick up!
- Approach
- Opener
- Hook point
- Comfort Building
- Isolation
- Major Escalation
- Seduction
- Fucking
These are 8 things that every successful pick up attempt will include. All of them are important and very necessary in order to give a young lady the dicking she so desires, but one of them stands out because it repeats itself a few times and in the end is an integral part of having sex
Isolation
You run the approach, have a solid opener and a few good routines stacked and ready to go and you Kino like a champ: You still wont be able to get her to make out with you unless you pull her away from the group. You see, there is a lot of social pressure by her friends when you’re all standing there. She doesn’t want to lose status or value in front of her friends so its doubtful she’ll grab your cock on the spot and whisper sweet somethings into your ear. Because of this, you need to isolate her away from her friends and continue the pick up in a more intimate manner.
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This can be done by pulling her to a different part of the bar, moving five feet away, or even bouncing (PUA term in italics) to a new venue; no matter how you do it, the goal is to put a visible separation between her and her friends, making the two of you feel exclusive and alone together. This builds intimacy between you two and strengthens your connection, helping to further cement your chances of a lay. But why does this build intimacy between the two of you? Well, its simple really…
Man + Woman + Empty Room = Sex
Every. Fucking. Time.
Athol makes a brilliant point by saying that a woman has already decided to sleep with you when she decides to be alone with you for extended periods of time (Pro-Tip: This does not give you permission to rape her), and you as a man will decide to sleep with her the moment you two are alone; your genes will it. When a woman considers whether or not she is willing to be left alone with you for a period of time, she will be met with two ideas: Rape and; Consensual sex. Either she will fear being with you because she doesn’t trust you (shave the mustache, bro – I can’t help you if you wont help yourself), or she wont mind the sex that you will more than probably attempt.
Therefor, it can be reasoned, a crucial step to actually having sex with the girl you met at the bar is getting her to come to your place / go to her place / go to your secret hidden passage way swoop room. If you can get a girl alone and you have taken the time to esclate, you will get laid. No doubt. She has agreed to be alone with you which means she has more than likely considered the possibility of sex and is not against it (if she were, or feared rape, she wouldn’t be alone with you). You, being a man, will want to have sex with her once you’re alone.
So how can you isolate the girl?
Stick around and I’ll tell you.
